LOVE AND LOVE Reflections

Photo source: shutterstock.com “Men don’t cry” they say, but not with a heartbreak. Few men can deny crying when they experience(d) it. Whilst some resort to the shower to “wash” away their tears, others wear goggles to “cover” it up. That tells you the pain broken-heart can cause. Come to think of it, the heart has no “bone” to be broken, so why do we say it is “broken”? Whilst in a relationship, we invest ourselves, our time, energy, money and other resources into it; and our significant others “occupy” a greater part of our heart. When we lose the relationship, we lose all these investments, and our significant others “leave” our hearts creating a vacuum which cause intense emotional, and sometimes physical stress or pain. This is metaphorically referred to as “broken-heart”. For some, the signs might be there; but for others, it hits them like a bomb, Boom! It really hurts, and it can cause so much anger, resentment, hatred, emotional and psychological trauma