LOVE AND LOVE Reflections

Whatever you do or give in dating is voluntary It amazes me as to why many women treat their boyfriends like they are their husbands, and the men treat their girlfriends like they are their wives. She does his laundry on regular basis and cooks all his meals. He provides housekeeping money, and apparently pays her school fees and buys her provisions. They justify it, “Well, I do want to be his wife.”, “I want to show her what a lovely husband I would be.” However, the problem with this is that their level of involvement in each other’s lives exceeds their level of commitment.  Dating is not Marriage Dating, as I do say, is a “marriage market.” It is a tryout for marriage, offering you the chance to explore and learn before you make that serious decision of marriage.    Someone said “ it’s like walking into the mall to buy a pair of shoes. As long as you haven’t paid for it, all you can do is to stare at it and admire its amazing features and beauty.

Show kindness even if it "cannot" be reciprocated "I love you, I love you And that you do know; But how much I love you, My actions will show." –Author Unknown Kindness, is Love in Action . It is the desire to do something good for others; even when they do not deserve it. It is how love acts to maximize positive circumstances. Through the nature of kindness, love actively works towards the benefit of all those with whom it comes in contact with. Someone said “The greatest thing a man can do for his Heavenly Father is to be kind to some of His children.” Lovers always seek the opportunity to help others in need. Kind people are like a magnet; they attract people to themselves. People always want to be around them; they are seen to be good to them and good for them. It takes someone who walks in the control of the spirit to be kind – not doing it for praise (Matt 6:1-4).  The Lost Art of Kindness Would you come to the aid