THE COMPLETE SINGLE
I have been approached on countless occasions with the question; “At what age or how old should one be to get married?” My answer always has been, “It is not the “aged” who gets married, but the mature and complete single!” And as you may guess, the follow up question has always been “What do you mean by a complete single? How do you become complete and fulfilled as a single when you are not married; when you don’t have a mate who really loves and cares for you”? Well, it is unfortunate that many hold this perception and so they enter into relationships unprepared and incomplete and are therefore met unexpectedly with the realities and uncertainties of marriage. It is the mature person who can accept the responsibilities of marriage. No one expects you to be a genius or extremely rich; but the dream of everyone for a spouse is someone who is responsible. Singles thus need to build their capacities to make themselves assets and not liabilities. You need to be a fulfilled or c